While you are on Earth, you will still experience many people and many situations that are not reflective of your preference because that is the nature of Earth.
Many people will make the assumption that just because they are changing themselves, they will suddenly no longer ever have to interact with anyone who is not of their frequency. NO! You are still on the Earth. There is still going to be a mix of things for a little while longer, but that's okay. It still gives you an opportunity to see in ABSOLUTE example what you do and don't prefer. It always gives you a way to gage where you're at relative to the things you see that you know are not who you are, who you prefer to be, who you prefer to deal with.
... so use that as an opportunity to grow!
Don't think there is something wrong because you are still getting people in your life that are not acting in a spiritual way.
Dont think: Shouldn't I be better than that? Shouldn't I be above that? Shouldn't I be beyond that?
Don't think there is something wrong because you changed yourself, and you are still getting people in your life that are not on the same frequency.
The idea is that you are on Earth.
that is what Earth is all about:
- the idea of dark and light.
The idea in integration is that you have something integrate;
if its all just light, there is nothing to integrate.
... so becoming more of yourself
is also becoming more aware-
not only of the light, but also of the dark.
The more aware you become of the light and dark choices,
then more you can choose openly and clearly what you prefer
Its not about excluding;
its about including
Its about knowing that you have a choice, still, to go into the dark if you want to
but now its knowing you don't have to
that doesn't mean you doth see the dark choice
it means you will become more aware of the dark choice
and you will be more aware of it as a choice
not as a given
not as an absolute
not as something that has more power over you
just as a neutral choice.
its just a choice.
If you are not aware that you had the choice to go in the dark,
you would not be a fully empowered being to make a choice to go into the light.
... so don't think its wrong because suddenly you still find yourself interacting with people who are not of the vibration of integrity.
Its giving you an opportunity to decide whether or not you want to still play that game, or whether you wish to make another choice. They do not have the power to affect you, as long as you do not agree to be affected- that is why its so important to respond differently as if you have changed-- no matter the situation around you.
The more you get in touch with who you are, what living this life is all about, what the theme is-- which is the freedom to choose..... and as long as you allow yourself to move with conviction and commitment in that direction then you are okay.
It's about moving forward with conviction and commitment-- NOT avoidance. There is no avoiding. If you wish to expand, then there is no avoiding, because when you avoid, there is no where to go, so you must invite it in.
Its all about inclusion and integration
not exclusion and segregation.
that is the old pattern.
that is not you anymore.
its time to know and be more of who you are.
Accept the dark
and the light
and use them in the positive way.
Just because you are aware of the dark,
doesn't mean you are the darkness;
it just means that you are aware of the darkness-
and that is a good thing.